As many know we're expecting our next little one in January. Today we find out the gender.
So I thought it would be fun to post a list of all the wives tales that apply to my pregnancy and which gender they claim to predict and let people vote to see what they think we are having.
We'll do a big reveal on facebook later. :)
stealing your beauty: boy
clumsy or graceful: boy
Baby gender dreams: boy
sleeping position: boy
Mother's intuition: girl
cravings: girl
temperature of feet: girl
heart rate: girl
face shape: boy
acne: Girl
Heartburn: girl
belly position: Undetermined
hubby's weight: boy
morning sickness: girl
mood: Boy
baby weight: girl
So total that's one more "girl" prediction than "boy". Since i'm not exactly sure of my conception Chinese gender predictions go both ways making one extra vote for each gender.
So what do you think? Boy or girl? ;)
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Thursday, September 18, 2014
Friday, January 18, 2013
Why we chose a midwife
When I first got married I was far from "crunchy". I LOVED my Hormonal BC and thoughts it was the best thing for my body. If you'd have asked my mother and sister, I was the polar opposite of how I think today in so many ways.
Years have gone by (7+ to be a bit more exact) and I've learned things. My road to crunch-ville has been slow and is still ongoing. I learn more each day. I thought some might wonder how I got to where I am today. And I wanted to share.
About 7 months before we got pregnant I started feeling really convicted about how my BC worked. I had originally gone on it before getting married due to really bad menstrual cycles. I had migraines, my body was irregular, cramps that made me cry and want to curl up and die. I am sure there are women out there that have it harder, and some who don't. We each have our own crosses to bear. This is not a competition. This is just my story.
Any who the meds made it better. My cycle was predictable and easier. My migraines where better and I felt better. Then I got married and I thought "well I don't even have to think about BC, it's taken care of! What a relief!"
So anyways I did some reading on how the meds worked. I read that they made my uterus basically "less likely" to allow an egg fertilized or otherwise to implant and grow. I also read that it made my cervical mucus thicker and harder for sperm to pass through.
There is some research that shows that due to these things an egg can't possibly get fertilized in the first place, but it's a very small amount of research. I became uneasy.
I'll be honest I do not know where life begins. And this isn't a debate on when that happens. For me Once I know I'm pregnant regardless of how small the baby is, it's a baby. It's not a fetus, or an embryo. It's a baby. A life. And I want it with my whole heart. The idea that I could have been pregnant before even if it was a slim possibility and not allowed my body to give the life a place to grow made me sick. I cried, I was very upset.
Now as a christian I believe my husband is the spiritual leader of our home. I also believe I gave my body to him when we got married. And he gave his to me. As a result of that, and because he IS my best friend and the person who's opinion matters most I had to have a discussion with him before I went "off" the BC.
It took me explaining my reading, and a lot of praying for both of us. We came to the decision together to leave BC pills behind.
Years have gone by (7+ to be a bit more exact) and I've learned things. My road to crunch-ville has been slow and is still ongoing. I learn more each day. I thought some might wonder how I got to where I am today. And I wanted to share.
About 7 months before we got pregnant I started feeling really convicted about how my BC worked. I had originally gone on it before getting married due to really bad menstrual cycles. I had migraines, my body was irregular, cramps that made me cry and want to curl up and die. I am sure there are women out there that have it harder, and some who don't. We each have our own crosses to bear. This is not a competition. This is just my story.
Any who the meds made it better. My cycle was predictable and easier. My migraines where better and I felt better. Then I got married and I thought "well I don't even have to think about BC, it's taken care of! What a relief!"
So anyways I did some reading on how the meds worked. I read that they made my uterus basically "less likely" to allow an egg fertilized or otherwise to implant and grow. I also read that it made my cervical mucus thicker and harder for sperm to pass through.
There is some research that shows that due to these things an egg can't possibly get fertilized in the first place, but it's a very small amount of research. I became uneasy.
I'll be honest I do not know where life begins. And this isn't a debate on when that happens. For me Once I know I'm pregnant regardless of how small the baby is, it's a baby. It's not a fetus, or an embryo. It's a baby. A life. And I want it with my whole heart. The idea that I could have been pregnant before even if it was a slim possibility and not allowed my body to give the life a place to grow made me sick. I cried, I was very upset.
Now as a christian I believe my husband is the spiritual leader of our home. I also believe I gave my body to him when we got married. And he gave his to me. As a result of that, and because he IS my best friend and the person who's opinion matters most I had to have a discussion with him before I went "off" the BC.
It took me explaining my reading, and a lot of praying for both of us. We came to the decision together to leave BC pills behind.
We where very careful and I charted my basal body temp and charted to keep track of my fertility. And within a month of trying we got pregnant! I was so excited! I immediately called my OBGYN who'd prescribed the BC for me. I liked her. I wanted a Female DR. And at this point the only "crunchy" thing I did was go see a chiropractor for my back and migraines.
I was nervous. This is where my list comes in.
I was nervous. This is where my list comes in.
1.) I am a person not a number
I went in and had to fill out millions of pieces of paperwork. Not just for the dr though. For the various companies that wanted to send me samples and such. Fine I like free stuff as much as the next person. And while I was planning to breastfeed for simple and pure economics I liked the bag the formula company had sitting on the counter to show what you "got" when you gave birth and headed home.
I had to see a "pregnancy Educator" first. And she was cold and pushy. Gave me tons of pamphlets which leads to number 2.
2.) I do not want to be pushed into interventions I don't want when other options exist
I was open to pain meds at this point. But I KNEW I did NOT want an epidural. I am scared of needles. Having one in my arm when I give blood makes my blood pressure go up, makes me nauseated, and dizzy.
I can handle anything else but NOT an Epi.
"Well they aren't really all that bad! It's not a big needle you know. And it helps SO Much. Here let me send you home with a pamphlet to read over!" </shoves pamphlet in bag of "goodies">
I can handle anything else but NOT an Epi.
"Well they aren't really all that bad! It's not a big needle you know. And it helps SO Much. Here let me send you home with a pamphlet to read over!" </shoves pamphlet in bag of "goodies">
After waiting for what seemed like forever for an appointment that should have been 1.5 hours (took nearly 3) I was sick of it. I was fed up. That night I was reading my Birth board on What To Expect and seeing these other mom's mention how well their first appointment went made me decide something was missing.
We decided we'd switch to another OBGYN. I called my friends, Got a recommendation and was planning to make an appointment.
That weekend we went to whole foods. It's in a VERY busy area so we rarely go. But we went. I can't remember why at this point. While there I picked up a local holistic free magazine called "Awakenings". I was flipping through it and saw an add in the back for a midwife. What was special about this add was it was for a midwife I'd known very well and forgotten about. Her name is Susan Smart. And she taught a few of our classes in Co-op. (yes I was home schooled! And proud of it.) She was practicing then too and I remembered thinking it was weird but also being intrigued Of course back then the idea of sex was gross and also weird so not really valid. lol
I decided to look into midwives. And doula's and the whole nine yards. I watched "the business of being born," I read blogs about home births, birth center births, unassisted birth. I watched videos on youtube, and anywhere else I could find. And then I found water birth. My mind was made up that's when I realized I'd been leaving a critical part of my thinking process out of this equation.
We decided we'd switch to another OBGYN. I called my friends, Got a recommendation and was planning to make an appointment.
That weekend we went to whole foods. It's in a VERY busy area so we rarely go. But we went. I can't remember why at this point. While there I picked up a local holistic free magazine called "Awakenings". I was flipping through it and saw an add in the back for a midwife. What was special about this add was it was for a midwife I'd known very well and forgotten about. Her name is Susan Smart. And she taught a few of our classes in Co-op. (yes I was home schooled! And proud of it.) She was practicing then too and I remembered thinking it was weird but also being intrigued Of course back then the idea of sex was gross and also weird so not really valid. lol
I decided to look into midwives. And doula's and the whole nine yards. I watched "the business of being born," I read blogs about home births, birth center births, unassisted birth. I watched videos on youtube, and anywhere else I could find. And then I found water birth. My mind was made up that's when I realized I'd been leaving a critical part of my thinking process out of this equation.
3.) My body is not broken let me labor as I needI am fearfully and wonderfully made! My God can supply all my needs! I am not broken! And isn't he able to provide me with someone who is skilled to care for me and my baby? Isn't he the one who formed my womb? Isn't he the one who gave women the ability to give birth? I do not want to be put on a hospitals time table. I want to give birth and labor as I need. and I won't know how that is till I get there!
4.) I was created to give birth
I believe God created my Body perfectly. And that my birth would/will happen the way it should. I want to treat that body and baby's temporary home without meds and without interventions. I read that normal first births can last for DAYS! And if in a hospital Dr's will push interventions to speed the process along.
It won't be said that way OF COURSE. It will be, "You seem tired why don't we give you an epi so you can rest? Or well your waters been broken for 12 hours so your risk of infection is higher. We should do a Csection so you and baby are ok."
No thank you! Not for me.
It won't be said that way OF COURSE. It will be, "You seem tired why don't we give you an epi so you can rest? Or well your waters been broken for 12 hours so your risk of infection is higher. We should do a Csection so you and baby are ok."
No thank you! Not for me.
So we made an appointment with Mrs. Smart. After talking with her on the phone and learning the difference between a midwife and a doula and knowing I couldn't have a water birth in the hospital (to much risk to their insurance companies) I knew what I wanted. And hubby was on board.
We toured the birth center she works with, Discussed likely hood of complications, common tests, how treatment at home works, etc.
We toured the birth center she works with, Discussed likely hood of complications, common tests, how treatment at home works, etc.
5.) I wanted natural methods for treating common pregnancy ailments
I'm not crunchy at this point. But am one who knows that anything done to mom's body can affect baby. As such I don't even paint my nails or color my hair during pregnancy. I feel extremely guilty if I wear makeup or drink a caffeinated beverage (even though studies show a tiny bit is ok and can even be calming!)
So when my midwife told me that I could use papaya for my heartburn, (and it tasted like candy) and B6 for my nausea (and they worked) I was so excited! Something that was good for my body and helped!
6.) Cost !$$$$
I am a thrifty Cheapskate at heart. This is a major part of why I wanted to breastfeed. All the perks for mom and baby where just plus sides. And though my view on that has changed now that's why I wanted to originally. And I also wanted to Cloth Diaper for the same reason.
When I learned that in many cases a NORMAL uncomplicated Vaginal birth in the hospital with no epi's or anything fancy can be over 10,000.00 I was shocked! Then add in the epi, anesthesiologist, doctor's fees, and oh what if something does go wrong? Then what? More cost.
I"m young and Healthy and as long as tests show I stay that way there was no reason not to have a home birth.
When I learned that in many cases a NORMAL uncomplicated Vaginal birth in the hospital with no epi's or anything fancy can be over 10,000.00 I was shocked! Then add in the epi, anesthesiologist, doctor's fees, and oh what if something does go wrong? Then what? More cost.
I"m young and Healthy and as long as tests show I stay that way there was no reason not to have a home birth.
7.) Safer than a hospital birth
My midwife showed us a printout form a study that the British Medical Journal did and it was way safer. Mostly because, there are no big "interventions" to speed the process up.
Now that is not true for everyone.
Now that is not true for everyone.
8.) Trained in normal childbirth
There are certain cases where home birth isn't safer. Such as if the mom has Pre E, or GD, or is VERY VERY past due or VERY early.
The midwife herself can make a huge difference too. In my area there is one midwife that I do not know many people who recommend Her rate of transfers to the hospital are alarming and simply put, if she'd not taken the patient or done things different when signs of complication arose this might not be the case.
The midwife herself can make a huge difference too. In my area there is one midwife that I do not know many people who recommend Her rate of transfers to the hospital are alarming and simply put, if she'd not taken the patient or done things different when signs of complication arose this might not be the case.
It can also depend on your midwives experience and if she works with an OBGYN.
My Midwife works with an OB form North Carolina who comes down to check her and the others she works with to basically provide peer reviews. If he recommends a change they listen because he is wise. Peer reviews happen in Mental health practice and in my opinion should happen in all forms of medicine but that's another story.
So tests are preformed at every checkup. The midwife has you weigh yourself, takes a urine sample, and asks questions about your eating habits. and overall health and state. You do a GD test, and can opt for ultrasounds, or not, Group be Strep or Not, And if you want the other tests preformed in utero they can write a order for you to have them at the hospital.
A good midwife carry's oxygen, And some meds and herbs with her to help with common ailments like hemorrhaging and tearing. I was given pitocin after birth as a precaution to prevent post pardum hemorrhage. And an herb to help deliver the placenta quickly.
My Midwife works with an OB form North Carolina who comes down to check her and the others she works with to basically provide peer reviews. If he recommends a change they listen because he is wise. Peer reviews happen in Mental health practice and in my opinion should happen in all forms of medicine but that's another story.
So tests are preformed at every checkup. The midwife has you weigh yourself, takes a urine sample, and asks questions about your eating habits. and overall health and state. You do a GD test, and can opt for ultrasounds, or not, Group be Strep or Not, And if you want the other tests preformed in utero they can write a order for you to have them at the hospital.
A good midwife carry's oxygen, And some meds and herbs with her to help with common ailments like hemorrhaging and tearing. I was given pitocin after birth as a precaution to prevent post pardum hemorrhage. And an herb to help deliver the placenta quickly.
9.) Sharing my faith
I remember being very upset and nervous about one test. And my Midwife could tell I was upset. She asked me what was wrong and if I needed to talk about anything. (common for our visits as midwifes treat the whole person not just the pregnancy) I shared my fears with her and broke down in tears. (YEAH hormones) She listened then asked me softly, "would you like me to pray with you about it?"
There are midwives in all faiths, or even atheists. Just like Doctors. Finding one who Meshes with you and your beliefs is so important. Asking little question like what faith do you practice? And how do you encourage mom in labor can make all the difference in a home birth. You have to trust your midwife completely.
I remember all my doubts and fears melting away with those simple words. And that was it. It was ok.
I remember being very upset and nervous about one test. And my Midwife could tell I was upset. She asked me what was wrong and if I needed to talk about anything. (common for our visits as midwifes treat the whole person not just the pregnancy) I shared my fears with her and broke down in tears. (YEAH hormones) She listened then asked me softly, "would you like me to pray with you about it?"
There are midwives in all faiths, or even atheists. Just like Doctors. Finding one who Meshes with you and your beliefs is so important. Asking little question like what faith do you practice? And how do you encourage mom in labor can make all the difference in a home birth. You have to trust your midwife completely.
I remember all my doubts and fears melting away with those simple words. And that was it. It was ok.
10.) Bedside manor (is not having a rotating OBGYN)
This reason is small but something that bothers me about many OBGYN practices. I don't like the fact that I am building up a relationship with mostly one person but he/she might not be working when my baby is born. So guess what doctor B, C or D, might deliver your baby instead. So you have to rotate which doctor you see t the practice.
Maybe you choose Dr A because they share your ideals about birth but Dr D doesn't. What happens if he is on call when you give birth. Maybe Dr B makes you nervous, or you plain don't like Dr C. Sorry they're on call to deliver your wonderful bundle of joy.
with a midwife you have that one person, and her helper/s. That's it. You develop a relationship. they work their hardest to give you the birth you want so long as baby is safe. And while you might not get to deliver in the water like you wanted (Me) baby is born with the person you wanted there.
This reason is small but something that bothers me about many OBGYN practices. I don't like the fact that I am building up a relationship with mostly one person but he/she might not be working when my baby is born. So guess what doctor B, C or D, might deliver your baby instead. So you have to rotate which doctor you see t the practice.
Maybe you choose Dr A because they share your ideals about birth but Dr D doesn't. What happens if he is on call when you give birth. Maybe Dr B makes you nervous, or you plain don't like Dr C. Sorry they're on call to deliver your wonderful bundle of joy.
with a midwife you have that one person, and her helper/s. That's it. You develop a relationship. they work their hardest to give you the birth you want so long as baby is safe. And while you might not get to deliver in the water like you wanted (Me) baby is born with the person you wanted there.
These are just a few of the reasons we choose a midwife. I'm sure hubs will remind me of other's later. But I wanted to share since some might wonder how I came down my crunchy path. :) I can't wait to have our next one and do it all over again!
Thursday, March 17, 2011
Maternity Musings Part 2
So now that Ive blasted all the bad, non cute, maternity patterns I thought Id share some of the ones that are cute with you all. Now these aren't perfect. So I've also included some non maternity patterns that could easily work for maternity clothing with very little tweaking.
http://www.etsy.com/listing/65438163/simplicity-6415-vintage-70s-misses?ref=sr_list_37&ga_includes[0]=tags&ga_search_query=maternity+sewing+patterns
This sundress is pretty cute. Plenty high enough to make the bump look cute. and the bust looks fitted enough to be comfy. Maybe with the right bra pads in it you could even go without a bra. Several lengths good for anyone's taste.
http://www.etsy.com/listing/70145279/simplicity3645-maternity-sewing-pattern
http://www.etsy.com/listing/69927707/simplicity-4704-maternity-dress-top
http://www.etsy.com/listing/52654411/1970-smock-blouse-hippiesque-blouse
http://www.etsy.com/listing/50986552/vintage-60s-simplicity-4506-maternity
http://www.etsy.com/listing/56713343/vintage-1978-maternity-top-pattern
Now you must ignore the little evil bow on view 1 and instead focus on how cute the middle option is. Cute yoke top, with pockets and looks like it would breathe well in the summer. I'm not super fond of the sleeves but change them out with the sleeves from a different pattern and I'd call this one a hit.
Last I want to give you some current patterns! First Megan Nielson has some super cute modern maternity clothing. And I've herd great things about her patterns!
This top has 2 options and is super cute. I believe option 2 is a dress. love that they have their own fabric too!
http://www.etsy.com/listing/62413964/fabulous-wing-blouse-pdf-patterns-and
I'm going to have to stop for now! I have many more to show you but my hubby is in bed and I should be too! It's getting late and I'm growing a person inside me after all. :)
Once again I hope the owners of these etsy shops are ok with me posting my musings on their items! I have provided a direct link to the items (with the exception of Megan's who I have linked to her etsy shop itself) so you can purchase them without a problem if your heart desires! Enjoy!
Maternity Musings 2
So now that Ive blasted all the bad, non cute, maternity patterns I thought Id share some of the ones that are cute with you all. Now these aren't perfect. So I've also included some non maternity patterns that could easily work for maternity clothing with very little tweaking.
http://www.etsy.com/listing/65438163/simplicity-6415-vintage-70s-misses?ref=sr_list_37&ga_includes[0]=tags&ga_search_query=maternity+sewing+patterns
This sundress is pretty cute. Plenty high enough to make the bump look cute. and the bust looks fitted enough to be comfy. Maybe with the right bra pads in it you could even go without a bra. Several lengths good for anyone's taste.
http://www.etsy.com/listing/70145279/simplicity3645-maternity-sewing-pattern
http://www.etsy.com/listing/69927707/simplicity-4704-maternity-dress-top
http://www.etsy.com/listing/52654411/1970-smock-blouse-hippiesque-blouse
http://www.etsy.com/listing/50986552/vintage-60s-simplicity-4506-maternity
http://www.etsy.com/listing/56713343/vintage-1978-maternity-top-pattern
Now you must ignore the little evil bow on view 1 and instead focus on how cute the middle option is. Cute yoke top, with pockets and looks like it would breathe well in the summer. I'm not super fond of the sleeves but change them out with the sleeves from a different pattern and I'd call this one a hit.
Last I want to give you some current patterns! First Megan Nielson has some super cute modern maternity clothing. And I've herd great things about her patterns!
This top has 2 options and is super cute. I believe option 2 is a dress. love that they have their own fabric too!
http://www.etsy.com/listing/62413964/fabulous-wing-blouse-pdf-patterns-and
I'm going to have to stop for now! I have many more to show you but my hubby is in bed and I should be too! It's getting late and I'm growing a person inside me after all. :)
Once again I hope the owners of these etsy shops are ok with me posting my musings on their items! I have provided a direct link to the items (with the exception of Megan's who I have linked to her etsy shop itself) so you can purchase them without a problem if your heart desires! Enjoy!
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
Maternity Musings
So I've now been pregnant for 17 weeks and have started looking and purchasing maternity clothing. For someone who has been reconing clothing I've been cringing at the concept of purchasing new. So I've built most of my wardrobe so far from thrift-ed or clearance items. I've not paid more than 12.00 so far for any tops. But I really think it would be fun to make some of my own. I'm sort of picky on how wide the straps on my tops are (must hide the bra straps.) and I want them long. I like my shirts to cover the top of my pants pockets already.
So making my own clothing is looking more and more appealing. Add to that all the pans for maternity don't tend to have pockets. For example I have several knit pants but the 2 with pockets look like p.j. bottoms. So I need pockets!
So I started the hunt first for free patterns. Well those I think I found 6 tops, 6 pants, and 6 misc things like belly bands and such. I am going to be wearing a lot of skirts probably since I'll be preggers till august and it is very humid here in summer. So skirts I must have and can make no problem. But tops I need some more of!
So I started searching etsy.
First thing I notice about vintage patterns. They are a-line tents that flare from directly under the arms down. Button down the front and have sleeves case in point:
http://www.etsy.com/listing/43256813/mccalls-maternity-pattern-size-ex-large
how is this flattering? What woman's body pregnant or otherwise is shaped like an A? Would you buy a piece of clothing shaped like that off the rack? If not why make it?Next we have the horrendous Extra plus sized clothing:
http://www.etsy.com/listing/13660156/mccalls-4698-misses-maternity-top-vest
http://www.etsy.com/listing/42405914/mccalls-3604-maternity-dress-top
These are the things that where basically made BIGGER rather than made to actually fit. Typically up-sized originally from a juniors cut or such. I do not know many plus sized woman shaped right to pull of something like that so why a pregnant one?On top of that women have curves. We like to show off our best ones. Why wear a box?
The next offender is the bow:
http://www.etsy.com/listing/6364608/mccalls-7417-misses-maternity-dress-top
A bow in the right place might be a cute femine touch. This is not one. Arguably this is not the worst offender. But still not good. How does it stay closed over the belly if there are only 3 buttons at the top? And if that is a seam down the front and not a flap why? Who wants a seam down the front of their dress/shirt? The only redeaming quality in this pattern is the cute puffy sleeves.Now I want to know what woman who is all ready pregnant and has a huge belly wants to make her hips look huge as well? Would you wear view C while pregnant:
http://www.etsy.com/listing/64370137/vintage-mccalls-maternity-set-pattern
Not to mention the horrid matchy matchy pants? Sure I'd like to look like a summer squash in the summer!Now we have the worst offender before I get to the halfway decent ones. I give you "maternity underear":
http://www.etsy.com/listing/51213371/1970-uncut-sew-lovely-lingerie-pattern
Now first, it may be a simply poor diagram but do those not look like ruffles across the front? What woman who is already pregnant and twice her size would want to put on ruffle front panties, under the tend dress, and become 4 times her size? What woman who is not pregnant would want her belly to stick out more than her rear?I say no one. But hey what do I know?
Now these aren't so bad:
http://www.etsy.com/listing/68927848/vintage-maternity-dress-and-jacket
At least there are darts on the front of this dress so it will flow nicely over the belly rather than tent out.This one isn't terrible but once again nothing really special about it:
http://www.etsy.com/listing/39271102/vintage-maternity-dress-tops-pants
They still are slightly tent like but the sleeve shape is interesting.Last I give you the worst nursing top of all time:
http://www.etsy.com/listing/53051871/mccalls-maternity-nursing-tops-pattern
Why oh why would you want to appear like you've layered a crop top on a t shirt? Or chopped the top of a perfectly good shirt off and sewn it on top of a regular shirt? I'd say the only one here that would fool someone is the vest option since that's at least sort of inconspicuous.I will say there are some gems out there and once I've compiled more than 3 I will make a post with them as well. :) I hope the etsy shops these are listed in do not take offense as I've linked them in case someone stumbling on my post decides they simply must have the pattern and wants to purchase it. And please know I am not critisizing any shop owner for having these patterns but the designer of the patterns for not thinking outside the box in their designing.
Us preggo's want to look cute too! And we like things like ruffles, and layers, and flowers, cute prints, sheers, ties, and buttons. Just not used in these ways!
Maternity Musings
So I've now been pregnant for 17 weeks and have started looking and purchasing maternity clothing. For someone who has been reconing clothing I've been cringing at the concept of purchasing new. So I've built most of my wardrobe so far from thrift-ed or clearance items. I've not paid more than 12.00 so far for any tops. But I really think it would be fun to make some of my own. I'm sort of picky on how wide the straps on my tops are (must hide the bra straps.) and I want them long. I like my shirts to cover the top of my pants pockets already.
So making my own clothing is looking more and more appealing. Add to that all the pans for maternity don't tend to have pockets. For example I have several knit pants but the 2 with pockets look like p.j. bottoms. So I need pockets!
So I started the hunt first for free patterns. Well those I think I found 6 tops, 6 pants, and 6 misc things like belly bands and such. I am going to be wearing a lot of skirts probably since I'll be preggers till august and it is very humid here in summer. So skirts I must have and can make no problem. But tops I need some more of!
So I started searching etsy.
First thing I notice about vintage patterns. They are a-line tents that flare from directly under the arms down. Button down the front and have sleeves case in point:
http://www.etsy.com/listing/43256813/mccalls-maternity-pattern-size-ex-large
how is this flattering? What woman's body pregnant or otherwise is shaped like an A? Would you buy a piece of clothing shaped like that off the rack? If not why make it?Next we have the horrendous Extra plus sized clothing:
http://www.etsy.com/listing/13660156/mccalls-4698-misses-maternity-top-vest
http://www.etsy.com/listing/42405914/mccalls-3604-maternity-dress-topThese are the things that where basically made BIGGER rather than made to actually fit. Typically up-sized originally from a juniors cut or such. I do not know many plus sized woman shaped right to pull of something like that so why a pregnant one?On top of that women have curves. We like to show off our best ones. Why wear a box?
The next offender is the bow:
http://www.etsy.com/listing/6364608/mccalls-7417-misses-maternity-dress-top
A bow in the right place might be a cute femine touch. This is not one. Arguably this is not the worst offender. But still not good. How does it stay closed over the belly if there are only 3 buttons at the top? And if that is a seam down the front and not a flap why? Who wants a seam down the front of their dress/shirt? The only redeaming quality in this pattern is the cute puffy sleeves.Now I want to know what woman who is all ready pregnant and has a huge belly wants to make her hips look huge as well? Would you wear view C while pregnant:
http://www.etsy.com/listing/64370137/vintage-mccalls-maternity-set-pattern
Not to mention the horrid matchy matchy pants? Sure I'd like to look like a summer squash in the summer!Now we have the worst offender before I get to the halfway decent ones. I give you "maternity underear":
http://www.etsy.com/listing/51213371/1970-uncut-sew-lovely-lingerie-pattern
Now first, it may be a simply poor diagram but do those not look like ruffles across the front? What woman who is already pregnant and twice her size would want to put on ruffle front panties, under the tend dress, and become 4 times her size? What woman who is not pregnant would want her belly to stick out more than her rear?I say no one. But hey what do I know?
Now these aren't so bad:
http://www.etsy.com/listing/68927848/vintage-maternity-dress-and-jacket
At least there are darts on the front of this dress so it will flow nicely over the belly rather than tent out.This one isn't terrible but once again nothing really special about it:
http://www.etsy.com/listing/39271102/vintage-maternity-dress-tops-pants
They still are slightly tent like but the sleeve shape is interesting.Last I give you the worst nursing top of all time:
http://www.etsy.com/listing/53051871/mccalls-maternity-nursing-tops-pattern
Why oh why would you want to appear like you've layered a crop top on a t shirt? Or chopped the top of a perfectly good shirt off and sewn it on top of a regular shirt? I'd say the only one here that would fool someone is the vest option since that's at least sort of inconspicuous.I will say there are some gems out there and once I've compiled more than 3 I will make a post with them as well. :) I hope the etsy shops these are listed in do not take offense as I've linked them in case someone stumbling on my post decides they simply must have the pattern and wants to purchase it. And please know I am not critisizing any shop owner for having these patterns but the designer of the patterns for not thinking outside the box in their designing.
Us preggo's want to look cute too! And we like things like ruffles, and layers, and flowers, cute prints, sheers, ties, and buttons. Just not used in these ways!
Friday, February 25, 2011
Maternity and Nursing Pattern/Tutorial Round-up
Now that I've told you where you can buy cute patterns, why not some places you can get free ones? Or tutorials with info on converting your old stuff?
Well lucky for you I have been hunting and googling and "yahooing" and searching high and low and have found some!
So Some of these have probably been deleted or moved but for the most part these are all there!
Nursing:
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Maternity:
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Part 2 coming soon!
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